The Gift of Giving

A few weeks ago I read in the NY Times an article about a woman who decided to give $100 to a charity every single day for a year. That's a lot of money. Her story is inspiring because of what she describes as receiving from her donations. She learned about hundreds of non-profits she had never heard about, and got involved in changing lives, which in turn has changed hers.

We have always been a family that believes in giving, but still, we don't give enough, whether it be money or time or help or smiles. I don't have the time to investigate a new non-profit on a daily basis, but over the course of a week, I can find it. So, I'm trying to donate every week this year to a charity that will use the money wisely. Of course, our biggest donation goes to The Baby Alex Foundation. But, we can spare a few hundred bucks here and there for others.

We involve our kids in our charity work, in hopes of instilling in them both the value of generosity and an appreciation for what they have. We clean out toys and clothes together to donate, bake and sell cookies for our Thanksgiving turkey dinners, and now, we use birthdays as a chance to choose the charity and the amount to give. So, Alex turned 4 last week, and we discussed how important it is to give to people in need. One of my favorite charities is Heifer International, which uses the money donated to buy animals for families all over the world. Over the years, we have made an occasional donation to Heifer.

This year, we have instituted a birthday gift giving. Rather than get a present for your birthday, you get to give a gift to someone less fortunate. On Alex's birthday, we read through Heifer's website and after much discussion and thought, he decided he wanted to donate $50 to help buy a water buffalo. I upped the amount to $100, which bought half of one. He was extremely proud of himself, and talked about it all week. He didn't seem the least bit concerned that he would not get any gifts on his birthday (of course, we had chocolate cake and a dinner celebration), but more excited about what he had given. Izzy turns 3 this winter. We will do the same with her.